The media culture in today’s times tells us one thing: Sex is everywhere. Despite all the coverage, it seems that there isn’t a lot of clarity when it comes to contraceptives.
The only 100 percent effective way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence, but since most aren’t satisfied with this option, safe sex is imperative. Registered nurse Ashley Barram sat down to explain some of the confusion about contraceptives. Her first piece of insight: There are more than just a couple of options.
The side effects of the pill seem to linger in women’s mind (potential weight gain, breakouts, mood swings, etc.). Barram said, “Because there are a lot of different forms of birth control, students should come in and the doctors will do a consultation, they can track your reactions to certain birth controls, and adjust things as needed.”
At SHAC, Barram said they offer not only the traditional birth control pill but other non-hormonal options such as diaphragms, and IUDs. She also said that even with these options students should remember to also use a condom, because such options do not protect against Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs).
The transmission of STIs is another sex myth that seems to persist. Barram explained that some STIs including herpes and the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) can be transmitted merely by contact of genitals, intercourse or no.
Barram said that because of the potential dangers that sex can bring it should not be a taboo subject, communication with partners if imperative.
“I really encourage the type of relationships where they can have that type of communication [about sexual history]. I don’t see it all the time, but I encourage honesty and being able to dialogue about these issues.”
Barram suggests couples be screened for STIs before becoming intimate. Barram said that although she hopes people will be honest with each other, that is not always the case, and being screened is never a bad thing.
Women and men alike should always remember that whether it is the first time, third or thirtieth time with someone, there are always risks.
Barram said the most important reality she hopes students always remember is this: “Do not take sex lightly, and make a well-informed decision. With all our cultural and social expectations, people do not always think through everything, and they should be involved in their health.”