In the beginning, before your new significant other comes over, you prepare. You look your absolute best every time you see them. Then, you’ve been together long enough that the relationship…
Red flag warnings
Recently, I was walking through campus, and I overheard two young women discussing a third friend, and how that friend wanted to take a small vacation with some of her…
Don’t be a dick, give her a lick
What I’m about to say is largely aimed toward men who sleep with women, because lesbians should hopefully already know this. So here goes: Gentlemen, USE YOUR TONGUES AND FINGERS…
Unsure and OK
Teenagers have no idea who they are sexually, and that’s OK. This isn’t just teenagers though. It applies to anybody who is new to the sexual scene. I’m going to…
To watch or not to watch
Time to discuss a controversial question: Would it be fun to watch porn with your significant other? Whether you like it or not, almost everybody watches porn. Exactly how much…
Everything’s Better down where it’s wetter
What are we discussing today? Lubricants! These wonderful liquids can make your sex life much more fun, exciting, easy and pleasurable. There are many reasons to use lubes: anal sex,…
Bring on the toys
Sex sells. Nothing demonstrates this truism quite like the sale of sex toys. In 2011, it was estimated that the sex toy industry made about $15 billion, and the volume…
Roleplaying games (in bed)
Role-playing games are fun, and I’m not talking about Dungeons and Dragons (although I do like D&D). Rather, I’m talking about role-playing with your romantic partners. Role-play opens up extra…
Unkink your kinky sex biases
Once upon a time I was watching an episode of the TV crime-drama Bones. As part of a murder investigation, they find that their super-crazy, super-creepy murderers are, in fact,…
Responding to Body Image Blues
It’s easy to get out of shape while in college—that’s a simple fact. You are busier than ever before, have access to tons of food and alcohol, and you usually…
To trim or not to trim
It seems to me that few topics involving sex draw as much ire, rancor and judgement as the issue of women’s pubic hair. Just the other day, a very feminist…